Our Lives | WHEN EAST MARRIES WEST Mar 12, 2011

Smoke gets in your eyes

"If you could pick five great places to smoke a cigar, where would you choose?" A question not from out of the blue, but rather from the mouth of a cigar lover. Who tossed me this query during a lull in our evening conversation. We were ...

Our Lives | WHEN EAST MARRIES WEST Feb 12, 2011

A serving paints a thousand words

In Japan, food is not just food. It's art. And I do not mean the plastic imitations that decorate Japanese window displays. I mean the real thing, the very food on the very plate. For meals here are designed to please the eye as well as ...

Our Lives | WHEN EAST MARRIES WEST Jan 29, 2011

It's just me against the machine

I have news for those who fear the machines will one day rise against us. They have already risen. Maybe not in the Skynet sense. We don't have cyborg Schwarzeneggers stalking city streets. For why would the machines want to kills us? They already own our ...

Our Lives | WHEN EAST MARRIES WEST Jan 15, 2011

After 20 years . . . and more

Japan is a revolving door when it comes to foreign residents. They come and they go. And when they go, most never come back. My life — like everyone's I suppose — has been touched by a lineup of characters who once energized my daily ...

Our Lives | WHEN EAST MARRIES WEST Jan 1, 2011

Perfect vacation and perfect aggravation

All good marriages hinge on compromise, no matter what the couples' cultural backgrounds. Remove compromise and the open door of married life soon swings awry. "Ahem . . ." My wife clears her throat. "I prefer a different analogy. One where compromise in marriage is compared ...

Our Lives | WHEN EAST MARRIES WEST Dec 18, 2010

What resumes don't show

"A good job is hard to find" sounds like the title to a short story. One where the hero leaps various hurdles until at last plucking the perfect position. Or in a sad twist, ends up out on the streets with a pair of empty ...

Our Lives | WHEN EAST MARRIES WEST Dec 4, 2010

Tigers and lions and bears, oh my!

I have always enjoyed a good zoo. . . . Ah, now that's a compelling lead! To start, it offers a pale echo of Blanche Dubois in "A Streetcar Named Desire," stating that she has always relied on the kindness of strangers — right before they ...

Our Lives | WHEN EAST MARRIES WEST Nov 20, 2010

What's wrong with talking a little turkey?

Japan typically digs in its heels against outside customs. To win acceptance here, such customs must first measure up to Japan's high standards of cultural attainment. Which means . . . they gotta make money. Thus, through the years Japan has been trampled over by Western ...